Husbands typically hesitate to express themselves, especially when it comes to talking about their wives. Be it the fear of angering them or pampering them too much, either way, the best thing the husband thinks of saying is….NOTHING. However, this does not mean that they don’t want to say anything to their wives or don’t feel anything or don’t care. It’s just that they are either too scared or too shy.
Considering this, we figured out that we will have to take the initiative of making wives realise that their husbands indeed feel a lot of things, do not ignore anything and most of all, they actually do care. Here’s a list of 5 things a husband would want to say to their wife.
1. “I Love You”
It sometimes becomes difficult for husbands to say these three words, as they actually feel the burden of these words to be a bit too much. Although, he actually feels it and there’s no doubt about that. Husbands or men, in general, are more insecure than any woman and hence, they are afraid that saying “I love you” too much might actually affect their relation. However, they probably want to say it almost every day.
2. “I want you to pursue your passion”
For most married women, their husbands want them to do whatever they want in the world and will be the happiest person in the world seeing you do what makes you happy. Seeing you smiling and satisfied actually, gives them their daily dosage of happiness. However, there’s a chance their male ego comes into play, stopping them from saying this out front. Yet, they may actually be pushing you towards your own skill set and would want you to go pro with your passion.
3. “You being successful = me happy”
Sometimes, seeing their wives become successful actually makes the husbands happy. Contrary to what the society would have us believe, the fact that wives are successful actually tends to make the husbands feel proud about themselves, as they do relate your success to themselves. Hence, should you ever falter or go down, they will be the first ones to help you out all the while giving you enough space to figure out the path on your own. Just try noticing those little things or hints they are doing around you and you will actually realise what is being said is true.
4. “You have made this house a home”
Like every person in the world, your husband too needs someone to complete him, someone who will hear him out and not judge him, someone who will see him cry and not think twice before consoling him and most of all, someone whose presence will actually make him feel better. For your husband, you are that friend, lover and life partner with whom he has sworn to be together through thick and thin. Whenever he comes back home after the day’s work, the only thing that makes him smile after all the tensions of the world is your presence. Hence, it is always said that the wives are the ones who make a house a home.
5. “You going to your parent’s house makes me feel abandoned”
Saving the best for the last, this is something that no man would have ever said to his wife but must have always felt it. Here, the insecurity of a man clashes with his moral ethics, resulting in him letting go without saying so much as a “bye”. Till you get back, that feeling of abandonment does not leave him but rather increases as the day goes by. Something like this can be difficult to accept by both husbands, deep down they both know this is the case.
Nothing in the world gives more happiness to a husband than to be with his wife. Yes, there are fights, crying and a lot of emotion involved in a marriage, but it’s as they say – We fight with the ones we love the most.