Communication is the basis for any healthy relationship. Understanding your husband can go a long way and will help strengthen your bond beyond measure. Here are a few conversations you should be having with your husband if you haven’t already.
1. The finance talk
Talking about finance doesn’t entitle just the income of your husband. Planning things like your child’s college fund, saving up money for retirement, and even daily expenditures are something that is essential in a marriage.
2. The sex talk
Learning about each other’s desires and fantasies will make your sex life that much more amazing. It might be an awkward talk at first but you’ll definitely not regret it.
3. The future and dreams talk
All of us have big dreams and aspirations, but have you ever taken a second to ask what your husband’s goals are? You might be surprised by the answer. Talking about your future plans like buying a house together or even your child’s future will fill your relationship with hopes and happiness for the coming times.
4. The childhood memories talk
Was your husband naughty as a child? Did he fake a fever sometimes to miss school? You’ll never know unless you ask. These stories are not just adorable but you’ll also gain some insight into his upbringing.
5. The fears and insecurities talk
We all have a thing that makes the hair on our neck stand up. Whether they’re physical or emotional, it’s very important that your aware of your partner’s inhibitions. So, next time you see your husband overreact or irritated, you’ll have a better understanding of what’s irking him.